Can Men Evolve?
Your daddy's masculinity is out of date. Testosterone has trashed the global economy. Women are overtaking men in the job market and in colleges. The future looks grim. Young men seem locked into...
View ArticleToppling The Monolithic “Ideal Man”
Recovering from an intense, rocky, miraculous weekend at the Evolving Men’s Conference in Boulder. I went expecting a unified vision to emerge, and collective action. Apparently so did most of the...
View ArticleGuys, the google search term ain’t “Men’s Work”
"Men's Work" is a tool-belt full of bizarre-looking tools that the guy on the street can see no use for. Wait till a man's ready to build: a home, a family, sex, a career, money, community, a stairway...
View ArticleGuest Post
The Mature Masculine by Boysen Hodgson He cleans up after himself. He cleans up the planet. He is a role model for young men. He is rigorously honest and fiercely optimistic. He holds himself...
View ArticleHow Can New Moms Help New Dads Adjust to Her Changing Sexuality?
Image via Wikipedia Nekole Malia Shapiro is the founder of http://www.TantricBirth.com. In a recent Facebook exchange she asked me: I pose the same question to you that I asked Dr. Northrup in the...
View ArticleThe Power (and Misuse) of Men Apologizing to Women
Today I stumbled on a Facebook page of men’s apologies, generalized to All Women Everywhere. (links at end of this post) I’ve used this exercise in workshops with astonishingly powerful results. Men...
View ArticleSex Creates Realities
Make no mistake about it: sex is power. Kingdoms rise and fall for sex. Societies legislate marriage to control sex. Churches advocate celibacy, on pain of hell. They want to keep the genie in the...
View ArticleNO, MOM, I’M NOT BEING TOO HARD ON YOUR BOY
Boys are drawn to men. We’ve got something indefinable they need, a nutrient they can’t get from women, no matter how hard they pull on that nipple. This missing nutrient is a big reason our society is...
View ArticleDeeper Than Pleasure
What’s the quickest route to the Deep Masculine? Shift attention from your cock to your balls. The cock, after all, is just a delivery system for the real goods. Women, similar progression to the Deep...
View Article7 Steps to Whole Body Orgasms
1. Open ALL your pleasure circuits. Yes, the cock has 4,000-24,000 nerve endings (depending on size and circumcision). We like that. But the entire body has over 3 MILLION nerve endings spread over 20...
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When Sexual Wounds from the Past Return to Haunt the Present
When sex dries up, it’s easy to distance. Or fight. Or just avoid the elephant in the bedroom. That’s no longer necessary. If you’ve been sexually active in America, you’ve got battle scars. If you’re...
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What To Do If Your Cock’s Too Small
Forget the staged shrieks of porn actresses being mercilessly battered by beer-bottle cocks. In porn, what the women are screaming for is money, not the dude who’s ramming them for your viewing...
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The Women Know What I’m Talking ‘Bout (So Men, Listen Up!)
When the Sexual Healing Project was announced on Deep Masculine 2 weeks ago, who stood up and cheered? Overwhelmingly, women. They’re the ones who recognize the battle scars in their own bodies....
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No, Mom, I’m NOT Being Too Hard On Your Boy
Boys are drawn to men. We’ve got something indefinable they need, a nutrient they can’t get from women, no matter how hard they pull on that nipple. This missing nutrient is a big reason our society...
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“A young student of mine… his father committed suicide on Friday.”
Today’s guest post is by Aaron Huey, who walks his talk big time. The Desperate Divinity of Masculinity A young student of mine… his father committed suicide on Friday. I see yet another boy left alone...
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7 Easy Steps to Whole Body Orgasm
1. Open ALL your pleasure circuits. Yes, the cock has 4,000-24,000 nerve endings (depending on size and circumcision). We like that. (Esp if we haven’t been circumcised.) But the entire body has over...
View ArticleWhat Is Authentic Masculinity?
David Cates fields some non-PC questions about men and sexuality from Charlotte of the Pleasure Mechanics.
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